Science Behind Our Pet Peeves
Annoyances, known as pet peeves, are something that is unpredictable.They're stressors. A stressor is a stress-producing event or situation. It is important to note that an event that is a stressor for one person may not be for another. Stress is the term used for the person's reactions; whether perceptual, cognitive, physical, or emotional.
Many people think of stress only as a condition to be avoided. A Canadian researcher Hans Selye, however, distinguished between two types of stress. Negative stress, or distress, which stems from acute anxiety or pressure and can take a harsh toll on the mind and body. Positive stress, or eustress, results from the strivings and challenges that are the "spice" of life. (Selye & Cherry, 1978; Selye, 1982)
There is another component of stress. Richard Lazarus (1993) believes that how a person perceives and evaluates an event makes a difference. This is called the cognitive model of stress. People analyze and then evaluate a situation before it is labeled as stressful.
Many people think of stress only as a condition to be avoided. A Canadian researcher Hans Selye, however, distinguished between two types of stress. Negative stress, or distress, which stems from acute anxiety or pressure and can take a harsh toll on the mind and body. Positive stress, or eustress, results from the strivings and challenges that are the "spice" of life. (Selye & Cherry, 1978; Selye, 1982)
There is another component of stress. Richard Lazarus (1993) believes that how a person perceives and evaluates an event makes a difference. This is called the cognitive model of stress. People analyze and then evaluate a situation before it is labeled as stressful.
The Three Types of "Annoying"
- Environmental: annoyances from sounds and smells of our environment
- Social: annoyances cause by the violation of social norms
- Interpersonal: Annoyances caused by individuals
Most people dislike certain high-density situations and can feel stress when other people get too close. Studies on crowding have found a relationship between high-rise apartments with many crowded people and aggression. Crowding itself, however, is not the problem. The problems occur not when you are crowded but when you feel crowded. (Taylor, 1991)
Jonathan Freedman (1975) has concluded that the effects of crowding makes people feel better; if the situation is unpleasant, crowding makes them feel worse. In other words, being packed together intensifies people's reactions, but it does not create them.
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